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I’m not saying that constant masturbation cannot be an issue.

However, I’ve encountered people in the course of my work who have masturbated with normal frequency, and the behavior was not particularly destructive of their relationships, but they felt terribly guilty about it anyway.

While I used to think this fantasy was absolute proof of my homosexuality, I’ve come to realize that this is actually a fairly common interest among men, both gay and straight.

I’ve found this out by discovering loads of websites, social media groups, and forums centered around men — presumably straight — masturbating together, having sex with women together, and doing plenty of other recreational activities together, sans clothing. It’s an innate desire, masked in sexual expression.

Participants seemed to follow a pattern of behavior: sexting, then cybersex, then ultimately a real-life relationship outside of an intimate one. However, you may find support in meetings like those offered by S-Anon, which is a free program of recovery for those who have been affected by someone else’s sexual behavior.

Researchers summarized that when people get involved with sexting or online sexual relationships, this behavior seemed to predict that a cheating episode was likely to occur. If he is lying to you, has a secret credit card account, and laughing it off as insignificant there may be more you don’t know about. A program like this will help you to recognize that you did not cause the behavior and you are not the problem.

So, what I’m getting at is that it’s important that you think carefully about whether your problem is actually about masturbation, or instead about feeling ashamed.

If your masturbation is actually getting in the way of your relationships, work, or your ability to function in society, then yes, maybe you are masturbating too frequently.

I don’t know what to think but the fact that he was using a credit card that I didn’t even know about to pay for his thrills makes me wonder how much he is still not telling me. I have a very basic definition of infidelity that should validate your feelings: Infidelity is simply defined as the breaking of trust and the keeping of secrets in an intimate partnership.

People can get into behavioral trouble with their masturbation, such as when constant jerking off interferes with a man’s ability to or interest in functioning sexually in a relationship with an actual woman.

I’ve also known of some men who were very sexually compulsive and ended up spending all their money on telephone sex to the point where they were functionally addicted to sex and it was interfering with their social and occupational functioning.

Many of the women who write on this site struggle with their Sex Addict husband’s accusations that their porn or web cam or sex chats are not really cheating and that ‘everyone does it’ will now have some official validation.

According to Rob Weiss, Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, CSAT-S and Founder of the Sexual Recovery Institute, this is cheating!

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